Self-Paced Coaching

This program is online, self-led, and designed for couples navigating the impact of cancer on intimacy, desire, and connection. Each session offers expert teaching, guided practices, and occasions for light coaching.

You’ll learn proven frameworks, gain practical tools, and have space to reflect and apply what you’re learning—all in a supportive group setting.

Get the depth and clarity of working with a coach—without the scheduling, calls, or pressure.

This on-demand, self-paced program is like having a coach and teacher in your back pocket: expertly designed, thoughtfully paced, and ready whenever you are.

Each session blends teaching, reflection, and guided practices to help you move forward with confidence and care—all from the privacy of your own home.

Intimacy After Illness

6 modules
Special Launch Price $97
(normally $197)


For You If…

• You or your partner are going through or recovering from cancer and would like to find ways to bring intimacy back into your life

• You’re missing affection, touch, or play—but sex feels complicated or out of reach

• You want support, but aren’t ready (or able) to work with a coach or therapist

• You want intimacy to feel like nourishment, not another to-do

A Self-Paced Program for Intimacy Reset

What’s Inside

✔️ 6 Self-Paced Modules (see below for themes)

✔️ Audio and Written Lessons

✔️ Printable Workbook

✔️ Immediately Useful Practices

✔️ Downloadable Bonus Tools + Resources

✔️ Lifetime Access + Future Updates

Optional add-on: 30-min coaching support for $150

Explore the Modules

MODULE 1:

Safety, Desire & Intimacy After Illness

  • How to define (and redefine) safety in your body and relationship
  • Why desire often shifts—and how to work with that change
  • What intimacy really means now, beyond the physical
    🖊️Includes: Couples Check-In Reflection
    🧘 Practice: Grounding Touch + Body Listening

MODULE 2:

Consent, Communication & Connection

  • Understanding consent as dynamic and ongoing
  • The Wheel of Consent, simplified for daily use
  • Language for asking, offering, and receiving

    🖊️ Includes: “What Would You Like to Offer/Receive?” Prompts

    🧘 Practice: The 3-Minute Game (guided)

MODULE 3:

The Erotic Blueprints – Understanding Desire Differently

  • Introduction to the 5 Erotic Blueprints™
  • How illness or trauma can reshape your erotic map
  • Curiosity over compatibility: how to explore new edges

    🖊️ Includes: Blueprint Quiz + Compatibility Map

    🧘 Practice: Sensory Play for Different Blueprint Types

MODULE 4:

Sensual Touch Without Pressure

  • Moving beyond performance: What actually feels good?
  • Pleasure mapping and Sensate Focus basics
  • Relearning trust through attunement and goal-less touch

    🖊️ Includes: Pleasure Map Template + Touch Menus

    🧘 Practice: Guided Exploration of Touch

MODULE 5:

Breath, Energy & Sacred Sensuality

  • Erotic energy beyond friction or penetration
  • Breath, sound, and movement as healing tools
  • Rituals for intimacy—even without physical touch

    🖊️ Includes: Build-Your-Own Sensual Ritual

    🧘 Practice: Erotic Energy Exchange (hands-hovering or subtle touch)

MODULE 6:

Intimacy Design for the Long-Term

  • Co-creating a flexible “Intimacy Menu”
  • Reflecting on what’s shifted and softened
  • Naming what’s next, together

    🖊️ Includes: Monthly Intimacy Planner + Calendar

    🧘 Practice: Shared Closing Ritual Practice 

Coaching Testimonials

Not Sure Where to Start?​

We offer a free 20-minute clarity call to help you understand which offering might be best for you.

No pressure—just a gentle conversation.

A Note on Privacy
& Care

This work is trauma-informed, LGBTQ+ inclusive, and designed with deep respect for the complexity of cancer journeys. Everything shared is held in confidence and with care.

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