Intimacy After Illness:

A Self-Guided Coaching Program for Connection, Desire, and Care

This self-paced, on-demand program is designed for couples navigating the impact of cancer on intimacy, desire, and connection. Through a series of six thoughtfully structured online modules, you’ll receive expert teachings, self-guided practices, and reflection prompts you can engage with on your own schedule.

Learn new ways of relating to your body and each other—creating meaningful change at a pace that honors your lives and healing process.

Get the depth and clarity of working with a coach—without the scheduling, calls, or pressure.

This fully online, self-guided program is designed to support you without live sessions or facilitation. All teaching, practices, and reflections are built directly into the six on-demand modules, so you can engage with the material independently and return to it whenever you choose.

Each module weaves together clear instruction, reflective prompts, and guided practices—allowing you to learn, explore, and integrate at a pace that fits your life, energy, and healing process, all from the privacy of your own home.

Intimacy After Illness

6 modules
Special Launch Price $97
(normally $297)

For You If…

• You or your partner are going through or recovering from cancer and would like to find ways to bring intimacy back into your life

• You’re missing affection, touch, or play—but sex feels complicated or out of reach

• You want support, but aren’t ready (or able) to work with a coach or therapist

• You want intimacy to feel like nourishment, not another to-do

A Self-Guided Coaching Program for Connection, Desire, and Care

What’s Inside

✔️ 6 Self-Paced Modules (see below for themes)

✔️ Audio and Written Lessons

✔️ Printable Workbook

✔️ Immediately Useful Practices

✔️ Downloadable Bonus Tools + Resources

✔️ Lifetime Access + Future Updates

Optional add-on: 30-min coaching support session $150

Explore the Modules

MODULE 1:

Safety, Desire & Intimacy After Illness

How to define (and redefine) safety in your body and relationship
Why desire often shifts—and how to work with that change
What intimacy really means now, beyond the physical
🖊️ Includes: Couples Check-In Reflection
🧘 Practice: Grounding Touch + Body Listening

MODULE 2:

Consent, Communication & Connection

Understanding consent as dynamic and ongoing
The Wheel of Consent, simplified for daily use
Language for asking, offering, and receiving
🖊️ Includes: “What Would You Like to Offer/Receive?” Prompts
🧘 Practice: The 3-Minute Game (guided)

MODULE 3:

The Erotic Blueprints – Understanding Desire Differently

Introduction to the 5 Erotic Blueprints™
How illness or trauma can reshape your erotic map
Curiosity over compatibility: how to explore new edges
🖊️ Includes: Blueprint Quiz + Compatibility Map
🧘 Practice: Sensory Play for Different Blueprint Types

MODULE 4:

Sensual Touch Without Pressure

Moving beyond performance: What actually feels good?
Pleasure mapping and Sensate Focus basics
Relearning trust through attunement and goal-less touch
🖊️ Includes: Pleasure Map Template + Touch Menus
🧘 Practice: Guided Exploration of Touch

MODULE 5:

Breath, Energy & Sacred Sensuality

Erotic energy beyond friction or penetration
Breath, sound, and movement as healing tools
Rituals for intimacy—even without physical touch
🖊️ Includes: Build-Your-Own Sensual Ritual
🧘 Practice: Erotic Energy Exchange (hands-hovering or subtle touch)

MODULE 6:

Intimacy Design for the Long-Term

Co-creating a flexible “Intimacy Menu”
Reflecting on what’s shifted and softened
Naming what’s next, together
🖊️ Includes: Monthly Intimacy Planner + Calendar
🧘 Practice: Shared Closing Ritual Practice

Special Pre-Purchase Offer

For a limited time, get the full Intimacy After llness ~ Self-Guided Coaching Program for Connection, Desire, and Care for only $97 (regular price $297). You’ll receive your access link automatically on launch day.

What you’ll get at launch
• 6 self-paced video lessons with closed captions
• Guided audio practices and relaxations (MP3)
• Printable worksheets, checklists, and gentle tracking sheets (PDF)
• “What to say” conversation prompts and boundary scripts
• Quick-wins module for low-energy days
• Lifetime access and all future updates

Who it’s for
• Patients and survivors navigating side-effects of illness that impact intimacy
• Partners who want to support with sensitivity and clarity
• Anyone wanting a private, at-home, step-by-step way to reconnect with touch, desire, and communication

How the pre-purchase works
• Step 1: Buy now to reserve your spot and early-bird price
• Step 2: You’ll receive an order confirmation immediately
• Step 3: On launch, we’ll email your login/download link automatically—no extra steps required
• Step 4: Log in and go at your own pace, privately and securely

FAQ

Q: When will I get access?
A: On launch day you’ll get an email with your access link automatically. No need to contact us or complete extra steps.

Q: Will I get anything now?
A: You’ll get your order confirmation now. Course files/modules are released at launch.

Q: How will I access the course?
A: Via a secure link delivered to your purchase email. Save that email for quick access later.

Q: What if I change my email before launch?
A: Reply to your order confirmation with your new email and we’ll update it.

Q: Refunds on pre-purchases?
A: We offer a 14-day refund window from the date the course launches. If it’s not a fit, write to us and we’ll help.

Q: Is this suitable during active treatment?
A: Yes—modules are gentle, optional, and designed for a slow, intentional pace. Nevertheless, always follow your medical team’s guidance.

What makes this different
• Trauma-sensitive pacing designed for real-world energy levels
• Clear, shame-free language and scripts you can actually use
• Private, self-paced, and practical—clear guidance without overwhelm

Coaching Testimonials

“Claire is living life, full of experiences, and if you are lucky enough to work with her, you will find yourself inspired simply by her spirit... let alone the wisdom she speaks so fluently.”

"Working with Claire has altered the course of my life. She has gracefully created opportunities for me to trust in a deep shadow process by pointing to the places that were wanting to be seen within myself. Skillfull, deeply caring and makes room for all of myself without bias. I’m touched and grateful for having Claire alongside me on this journey where she’s helped to open the door to exploring this profound and challenging work without interfering with my natural evolution. Amazing blessing!"

Claire Rumore provided me with a safe, energetically clean, and open container to explore challenging topics. With her help, I was able to challenge beliefs that were no longer serving me, with vulnerability, openness, and strength. I highly recommend her coaching, and her facilitation to anyone who is ready to go to their next level.

"Each time I work with Claire, she provides me with simple, practical tools that I can incorporate almost immediately and continue in my regular routine. She has helped me determine how to determine where I should apply my focus to improve my life. I can't recommend her enough."

"I have experienced intense healing and insight from my sessions working with Claire. She has facilitated the work with the highest levels of care, respect, and commitment. Claire is a wise, intuitive mentor and each session with her has felt like a small journey into a larger one. She is an amazing woman with a rich range of knowledge, and working with her has been a healing and empowering experience that has helped me change old patterns and remember my way home. Thank you so much Claire for holding me with so much compassion during our sessions. It`s really been transformative!"

"I so love Claire's sense of humor, exquisite playfulness and outside of the box thinking. She is so easy to work with and a joy to be around; nonetheless, she carries so much innate wisdom and her insights are spot on. Claire embodies so beautifully both the masculine and the feminine energy, and the exercises that we've done together have brought so much clarity and softness in my life! She is definitely an extraordinary coach who I highly recommend anyone to work with and have in their life!!"

Claire has opened a whole new world to me through her classes, our coaching time together and her deep spirituality. She has the most wonderful combination of organizational ability, presentation skills and depth of caring in her courses; as well as being a kind, accepting and discerning spiritual guide in my personal journey of discovery. She has helped me explore “the dark night of my soul”, and share its fears, shame and dysfunction. Then take in all of this and become a more, compassionate, spiritual and sexual being. I have unearthed and shared with her things I’ve never told a living soul. Through her profound empathy, we have come to better understand the forces which have helped shape me and work toward a fuller love of myself and others. Surely, she is the mistress of “all that’s best of Dark and Bright.”

Claire is an amazing coach and facilitator. I took several workshops and sessions with her and am always stunned by her warm and friendly personality and her professional skills. Claire has a deep understanding of the human heart and soul – and combines it with her unique way of openness, kindness, empathy, respect – and finally her way of always bringing joy and ease into the world, even when talking about very deep and touching topics. I can strongly recommend working with Claire!

"I was blown away by Claire's ability to hold space for the group. Her presence and grounded energy quickly made everyone feel at ease, in a context which can be uncomfortable for some. Her knowledge of the subject matter is evident, you can tell she walks her talk! Her delivery of the information has supported me in awakening clarity and deep insights which surpassed my expectations. I would highly recommend any course that Claire facilitates to anyone interested in this subject matter."

Claire has been an amazing and helpful practitioner. Specifically important for me is how accepting and easy-going she is in the presence of speaking into sensitive, intimate and vulnerable areas. I felt seen, heard and empathized with. Claire also has a keen capacity to sort through the myriad of tangled confusions to help zero in on the thread to pull. She was able to offer me very specific tools, new vantage points, and resources to work with. I'm still employing those practices now and with great gratitude.

Claire Rumore has been an excellent coach over a number of years. Her skills as a facilitator go far beyond her extensive training, and her wisdom is well beyond her years. Her energy and intuition are impressive and often surprising. I recommend Claire with much enthusiasm.

Claire is a lovely companion for inner journeys. She has facilitated and joined me in some of the deepest dives that I have ever experienced; even counting my 15 years of workshops and training courses. She is naturally curious and motivated to grow her own gifts, and then she is profoundly generous with sharing her wisdom. I count myself uncountably lucky to have her presence in my life to help me smooth out some of these sharp chapters. Her demeanor is both patient yet probing, accepting yet anticipatory such that I can reach deeper levels if I keep feeling into them. I know that I am a more well-rounded human because of the time I have spent with her.

Claire’s work with sexuality and the Shadow had immediate and liberating effects over my sexuality. However, I was awestruck by the magnitude and depth of its effects in other areas of my life: I have become a better professional and my income has increased. *I have been working with consciousness development and the unconscious mind for 22 years already. Despite that,* Claire was able to develop my consciousness in truly innovative ways. Without any moral judgment whatsoever, Claire is the perfect balance between knowledge, wisdom and love. She is able to deliver that which I consider to be the ultimate criteria of the validity of a given work: immediate and concrete results.

“I’m always in awe of Claire’s embodied wisdom and in-depth understanding especially of sexual shadow work. As a facilitator, she uses her own experience, the experiences of her clients as well as her strong knowledge of the topic at hand to educate, encourage and inspire deeper reflection and healing in a way that is truly respectful of her audience and fully in alignment with the ethos of the late Shakti Malan. Thank you, Claire, for your sacred work!”

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A Note on Privacy
& Care

This work is trauma-informed, LGBTQ+ inclusive, and designed with deep respect for the complexity of cancer journeys. Everything shared is held in confidence and with care.